How to Make Friends as an Adult in Denmark

Making friends as an adult can be tough—add a new country, culture, and language into the mix, and it can feel nearly impossible. Whether you're a Dane who’s recently moved cities, an international who’s just landed in Denmark, or someone simply looking to expand your social circle, you're not alone. The good news? You're definitely not the only one feeling this way.

Here’s how you can start building meaningful connections—without the awkwardness.

1. Accept That It’s a Process (and That’s Okay)

Friendship as an adult often takes more intention and patience. You're no longer bumping into future besties in the school cafeteria or university common room. But that doesn’t mean new, close friendships aren’t possible—they just take a little more initiative and courage.

Pro tip: Most people you’ll meet feel the same. They're open to connection, just waiting for someone to make the first move.

2. Get Out of the House—Even When It Feels Easier Not To

In Denmark, especially during colder months, it’s easy to fall into a homebody rhythm. But real connections start when you show up. Join a pottery class, try a pub quiz, go to a board game night—anything that sparks even a little bit of curiosity.

If the idea of walking into a room full of strangers sounds overwhelming, opt for smaller, interest-based meetupsinstead. (More on that below.)

3. Shared Interests = Shortcut to Connection

Making friends isn’t just about proximity—it’s about shared values, passions, and activities. The more niche, the better. Whether it’s climbing, comedy, crafting, or coding, you’ll find people who get you when you're doing something you enjoy.

That’s why BuddyUp Social exists—to help people in Denmark find and join small, local events based on shared interests. It’s the easiest way to meet people who are already into the same things as you. You can even create your own event if you don’t see what you’re looking for.

4. Be the One Who Reaches Out

Yes, it’s awkward at first. But saying, "Hey, want to grab a coffee sometime?" or "We should definitely go to that open mic next week!" can go a long way. People appreciate it when someone else breaks the ice.

If you meet someone cool at an event or class, don’t leave it at just small talk. Exchange numbers. Follow up. You never know where that connection might lead.

5. Be Open to All Kinds of Friendships

Your new “crew” might look a little different than you imagined. They might be younger, older, from different countries, or have totally different life paths. That’s a gift. Let go of expectations and stay curious—you’ll find people who enrich your life in ways you didn’t plan for.

Start Small. Start Now.

Making friends as an adult in Denmark doesn’t happen overnight—but taking one step at a time gets you closer. You don’t need a huge network—just a few people you click with.

🎉 Ready to meet people who share your vibe?
Check out what’s happening this week on BuddyUp Social. You might be one event away from your next great conversation.